Release stagnant energies
Connect to your life-force energy
Expand your capacity for self-love & pleasure

Upcoming Dates

Level 1: Oct 19 – 25, 2024


A TRAINING in Beautiful nature


Our venue Agricola Samadhi is an ancient Masseria, or old farmhouse,  situated in the middle of the Salento countryside.This magic area, located in the heart of Apulia, lies between two seas in the south-heel of Italy. Here, the sun shines brightly, the coastline is wild, and the sea is crystal clear. In this serene setting, you’re invited to drop deep into your process surrounded by natural elements that encourage connection, flow and grounding.


Level 1 – Foundation: Full Body Dearmouring
Oct 19 – 25, 2024



A space to nourish Body & Soul


We’ll be in close touch with nature, amid centuries old olive trees in the mediterranean vegetation characterizing this magical corner of Apulia. The venue offers a wide range of different accommodation options, ranging from a shared triple room to a suite.



The ayurvedic kitchen is fully-dedicated to a healthy, balanced, organic cookery and is run by international experts in natural cooking. All dishes are prepared almost exclusively with ingredients from their permaculture garden or other organic products sourced locally (zero km).

Our retreat groups are intimate, so space is limited!




Aug 26 – Sep 01, 2024

7 days, 6 nights


Regular price* until July 18, 2024:

1.790 €


Late registration price* from July 19, 2024:

1.980 €


* Please note – our venue has a variety of accommodation options available from 502 € – 908 € EUR. The final price depends on your room choice!
* We offer special rates for REPEATER – please send us a message!
***Please check our Cancellation Policy and the Contraindications in the FAQ below

Our amazing team will GUIDE you ON your journey

Sunny Ju
Lead Facilitator

Sunny Ju, an expert Embodiment Educator and Pleasure Activist, is the creator of The Melting Method, a unique approach to Dearmouring that works gently, allowing for a natural melting of armour. With over 20 years in trauma-informed Body, Breath, and Energywork, she leads clients and groups toward profound healing, cultivating soul-satisfying relationships and transformative self-intimacy. A certified Trauma Therapist and Hypnotherapist, Sunny emphasises an integrated approach to physical and emotional well-being.


Angelika Höfner
Facilitating Assistant & Sound Healer

Angelika brings 22 years of energy healing expertise to our team. As our magical Sound Healer from Austria, she skillfully guides through sound and vibrations for deep relaxation and integration. Angelika’s proficiency in holding space for Dearmouring is exceptional, facilitating profound healing and reconnection. In her Cacao Ceremonies, she creates a sacred space for reconnecting with the heart, inner truth, and joy, fostering healing and connection.

Jule Hiemann
Facilitating Assistant & Organiser

Jule from Leipzig, Germany, experienced a transformative journey since her first Dearmouring Training in 2019 and came back every year. An adept bodyworker with a private practice, she integrates Dearmouring with Belly2Belly, ropes work, and Hawaiian Lomi Lomi Temple Massage. Jule enhances Dearmouring Trainings as an assistant and organiser, offering her warmth, generous hugs, engaging conversations, and lively dances. 

Alessandro Massarelli Dearmouring Team

Alessandro Massarelli
Interpreter & Assistant

Based in Sardinia, Italy, Alessandro is a dedicated bodyworker and facilitator focusing on reconnecting with Truth and Life-Force through Nature, Cosmos, and their rhythms. Leaving a career in the tech industry in 2010, he embraced a simpler lifestyle, following his heart’s and soul’s desires. Alessandro’s workshops and sessions uniquely blend elements of Tantra, Dearmouring, Shamanism, and Breathwork, reflecting his deep commitment to holistic healing and personal growth.



an authentic insight

13:59 min in-depth look at what happens in our Dearmouring Trainings.

Frequently asked questions

Dearmouring is a self-development process and not a replacement for therapy. Please note that participation is NOT suitable if:
– you suffer from acute severe psychological illnesses
– you are in an active state of trauma, psychosis or have nerve related issues e.g. epilepsy, fibromyalgia
– you have other serious psychological  or physical illnesses

– you are pregnant.

Please get in touch if you’re unsure if you’re able to participate for any of the above reasons, or other indications!


Everyone is welcome independent from your relationship status. This experiential intensive training is suitable for both singles and couples including those of all genders, relationship styles and sexual orientations.

You can choose to work with your partner(s) or choose to work with others. 

Our trainings are a great container for partners to reconnect with themselves and their own identification and pleasure while being on the journey together.  

No previous experience in any kind of bodywork, energy work, or Dearmouring is needed to participate. A strong desire to transform your life and coachability will support your process.


In Level 1, we focus on the non-genital, Dearmouring areas of the human body connected to life force energy and sexuality. 

In Level 2, you expand your skills and knowledge and include internal touch (mouth, throat and genitals) with an emphasis on sexual healing.


Once you successfully complete the Level 1 training with us, you will have access to Level 2 and the individual mentoring program for Certified Practitioners.

We love naked bodies and are ambassadors of body-positivity!

Still, full nudity is not required in any of our trainings. It’s always your personal choice in the moment.

You have the choice at any moment whether to keep going, stop, or resume any activities or processes.

We will create a container with group agreements at the beginning of the training.


We have an amazing team that will support you with love and compassion in your process.

There is a strong emphasis on finding the right pace and nervous system regulation if needed. 

Slow is the new sexy!


Our trainings are very rich in content and we encourage integration.

If you wish, you will have opportunities to book individual sessions with members of our team either before or after the trainings. These are not included in the Training fee and have to be paid separately.



We will be working with life force/sexual energy with and without physical touch for the purpose of healing. 

Any exchange of body liquids or penetrative interactions are strictly prohibited in the group room and are not part of the program.


Our course language is English. Translations are available depending on the team members. Please send us a request if you need a translation into your language.

Some of our Trainings will have an interpreter who translates simultaneously. This will be listed in the event description.



We provide a ‘Welcome & Practicals Guide’ for every training, which includes a list of what to bring, how to get there and other details you might need to know before the training starts.


We have an extra section about food and allergies in our Registration Form (part of the enrollment process). 

Our caterers are doing their best to meet your needs.


We will create a private sharing group to support you after the trainings. On top of that you will get access to our Graduates Community. Additionally we offer 1 Zoom Integration Call for the whole group. You’ll become part of our De-Armouring family!


Further educational modules and our mentorship program to become a certified practicioner are available.


The answer is NO!!! Ethics is a foundation for holding the space, which means that there’s no sexual interaction and romantic relating between the facilitator and participants as well as assistants and the participants. 

We are there to hold space for you and are honouring the vulnerability and power dynamics that come along with the Dearmouring process. 


Any more questions? We’re there for you! Please send us a message!!

Feel – Release – Expand

From trauma to trust.

From pain to pleasure.

From separation to connection.


Are you ready for a transformation?


Still wondering if our Dearmouring Training is for you?
Chat with Sunny or schedule a free 20 min Zoom Call.


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